Oh, I’m Gonna Get By Kids Got Someone Extra to Love

Having people in your life who love your children as much as you do is of utmost importance. As a parent, one of the greatest joys in life is witnessing your children grow, learn, and succeed. However, raising children is no easy feat. It requires immense love, patience, and dedication. In a world filled with chaos and uncertainties, knowing that there are individuals who genuinely care about your children offers a sense of reassurance, support, and a profound feeling of gratitude. Some of us are lucky, but a very small percentage of us gained a treasure of a humanbeing. One that decided from day one that they'd love your kids, even if you had four of them.

Having people who love your children as much as you do provides an additional layer of emotional support. And who isn't in need of a bit more of that as a parent? Parenting can be overwhelming and demanding at times, leaving parents feeling exhausted physically and emotionally. When there are individuals present in your life who share your love and devotion for your children, they become a pillar of strength during challenging times. Whether it is a tired day at work, an argument with a co-worker, or even your personal struggles, knowing that your children have others who genuinely care about them brings immense comfort and solace. These individuals help shoulder the burdens of parenting, providing a support system that allows you to navigate through the various challenges of raising children.

Such individuals as these in your life provides a sense of security, especially in emergency situations. Life is filled with unexpected twists and turns, and unfortunately, accidents or plights can occur. In such moments, knowing that there are 'Michaels' who love your children unconditionally can be invaluable. These beautiful people can step in and provide the necessary care, support, and guidance when you are unable to do so. This support network ensures that your children are safe and protected even when you are unavailable, offering peace of mind to both you as a parent and your children.

People in your life who love your children as much as you do enriches their overall development. Trust me here. Children thrive when they are surrounded by positive and nurturing relationships,and why wouldn't they it 'takes a village, doesn't it?' These individuals become role models, mentors, and confidants, influencing and shaping their growth in myriad ways. They provide alternate perspectives, diverse experiences, and offer opportunities for your children to learn and grow outside of the immediate family unit. Exposure to different relationships and love from various sources expands their understanding of love, acceptance, and compassion. It contributes to their social and emotional growth, teaching them about kindness, empathy, and building healthy relationships. The more people you have in your life, that love you kids, the better. This shouldn't be news to anyone.

The bonds formed through love and care are powerful, providing a support system beyond the nuclear folk. Having individuals who love your children as much as you do, who share in their achievements, milestones, and challenges, fosters a sense of belonging and a deeper connection to their roots. Kin can be both biological and chosen, and these relationships blur the lines between the two, creating a strong support network that lasts a lifetime.

If who are lucky enough to find those within your lifetime that volunteer their love and direct it directly, not only towards yourself but also readily provide it for your children, you may believe it would be something you'd never be able to pay back in kind. You may even be correct in that assertion. Getting chosen in this example is better than any material thing or sinking that winning shot for your team. There are people that walk among us whose kindness and selflessness carry no explanation. Love, it's something I can not tidy up in a sentence or two. It just is. Coming from those who had never been asked, who never bothered applying for the job that was never those to begin with? Holy shit.

They offered emotional support, provided a safety net in unexpected circumstances, contributed to your children's overall development, and created a sense of belonging. These legends bring immeasurable value to your life as a parent and create a nurturing environment where your children can thrive. Cherish and appreciate the hell out of these relationships, for they are a testament to the love and care your children receive from a wider circle of individuals.

Remember... family, they are who often picked you outta the other 7.8 billion choices on this big blue marble. Love, hug and appreciate them on the daily. Even if they don't like you buying them gifts, even if they don't like all the fuss and compliments given in thanks.

Yes, we gonna get on by...

Thanks for the past, present and future from the kids and me, Michael.

You've helped shape them into the fantastic adults that they're gonna be someday.

From gourd carving and Halloweeing to birthday dinners.

We thank you.